Madam and her orders in BDSM.
In the practice of BDSM Madam (aka Dominatrix) gives commands or orders, subordinates slaves (submissives) for himself and knows exactly what he wants. What kind of teams depends on the agreement of both parties. Dominatrix has no general requirements. Before the first BDSM session with Madame, she should ask you about the boundaries of the permissible and preferences. The foregoing you will certainly affect how much you will like the session.
Dominatrix teams – an important part of the session
Many people think that dominatrix has sex with his slaves and gives commands during him. In fact, in a professional relationship between dominatrix and submissive sex is more an exception. Almost always the emphasis is on other things, such as humiliation or return of orders. It happens that dominatrix can encourage slaves and slaves to masturbation with the help of commands, but it itself does not become sexually active.
If orders are not executed, this can lead to punishment. Sometimes slaves intentionally do not obey orders, so that the lady is forced to apply punishment. In most cases, however, orders are already sufficient punishment, since they are actions that can humiliate the subordinating.
Failure to fulfill orders entails the consequences. If the slave understands that the team goes beyond its capabilities and does not want to fulfill it, it can use a safe word. This will immediately complete or interrupt the session, and the team will not need to be executed. At the next session, Dominatrix will be careful to prevent a repetition of this kind of team.
Popular orders
Abstinence
By order of the abstinence, which Dominatrix gives to his submissions, she ensures that during the next session the sexual desire was even stronger, and the subordinate is tormented by torment. A belt of fidelity is often put on a man, thanks to which he will not have the opportunity to secretly satisfy himself.
Licking the legs or shoes
A very popular team among dominants is to lick feet or boots. There is no need to be a foot and the main thing – a humiliating gesture. If the submissive is a foot phenyist or fetishist, the pleasure factor will be higher.
Oral sex
Depending on the connection between dominatrix and the submissive, cunnilingus can be used on command. To do this, often use a special sexmebel, where the subordiner’s head is located so that the dominatrix can sit directly on the holes from above, and its intimate zone is above the face of the submissive.
Dressing and in public
This team applies only to male slaves and means that dominatrix and slave go outside together. The submissive is feminize, dressing in women’s clothes, which can be very inconvenient for him. When Dominatrix orders to go outside in the selected outfit, the slave must obey. Usually the lady follows him to control his humiliation. But it is also possible that Dominatrix takes the clothes of his slave and makes him go home in women’s clothes after the session.
Toilet slavery
The toilet slave can be at the disposal of Dominatrix only if he is ready to take urine orally. In this case, the submissive should serve as a toilet by order. Usually dominatrix urinates directly into an open mouth, after which the urine must be swallowed. In a more gentle version, urine enters only the body, the slave is allowed to wash it off only at home.
There are many Dominatrix teams that always depend on the individual approach and readiness of the submissive. Typically, the number of different teams increases at a certain point when a closer trusting relationship arises and the dominant can evaluate what exactly the submissive likes.