Fisting. A manual for dummies.
Fisting. What it is?
Kittens, today we have an unusual narrative on the way – about fisting.
Many do not really know anything about this, considering it in advance something exorbitantly vulgar and wrong. Someone has been practicing him for a long time, but did not even think that this is the name. Indeed, what’s the difference, the main thing is to be happy.
Fisting (from English. Fist – fist) – a format of special sex, implying the penetration of fingers, fist, legs or special toys in the form of these limbs. Most often, people patient, liberated and have complete trust in each other are fond of fisting. Not everyone practice fisting, not everyone understands, not everyone has enough patience, but, who have entered this difficult path, they say that he incredibly brings partners closer, revives relations and brings incredibly bright orgasms.
Types of fisting
Fisting is divided into vaginal and anal. If for the first, which is logical by name, a woman is needed, then the partners of both sexes may enjoy the second.
Vaginal fisting is easier and is practiced much more often. Almost all couples use it as a prelude preparing a partner to receive the main dish. Often from girls you can hear that men are wielding much as better than a member. But usually this concerns the very insignificant introduction of several fingers, and you can’t get to a specific fisting, you need to prepare.
If you decide to try, then the most important thing is that you can’t do without lubrication, because the natural one may not be enough, and fisting is delicate and does not like dryness. It’s good that in our time the choice of lubricants is limitless.
I will recommend special lubricants for fisting, super-slippery, in large banks. Do not regret it, don’t save!)
They smeared?
Now, gradually, insert your fingers into the partner, starting with the index and nameless, the latter is introduced large, pressed to the palm of your hand. During the process, follow the partner, its reaction, this should bring pleasure, not pain. Although the woman’s body is able to bear such stretching, but with habit, it can be unpleasant, which is fraught with the fact that the desire will quickly disappear and may not return soon. Remember, fisting loves patient. If the partner is comfortable with your palm inside, squeeze it into a fist and gently unleash it. Believe me, she will find in herself such sensitive points that she did not even suspect. You need to pull out your hand slowly and unclench your fist. Gradually, having felt the taste and accustoming the pussy to such entertainment, you can use both arms or legs.
Anal fisting differs from vaginal longer preparation.
The anus must be developed.
By the way, in the situation with men it is not only pleasant, but also useful. Here you can’t do without lubricant. There are also many of them, they differ in consistency and often the presence of anesthetic and antiseptic, making the entry more pleasant and protected.
And with anal fisting, an enema is recommended.
It sounds, of course, not very pleasant, but it will avoid many unpleasant moments and not violate the sexual mood.
You can develop a hole with fingers or corks, anal balls and chains.
Mmm, samples are generally a separate topic. They are such … in short, you can forget about fisting.
But we are talking about fisting here)
Anal fisting usually start with the middle finger, gradually adding the rest.
All fingers will not enter at once, here everything must be done gradually and slowly, if you want to give pleasure to the partner, and not provide injuries and breaks. After some time, the whole hand will enter the anus.
Listen to the partner, because despite the whole rudeness of this type of caresses, the anal fisting is the most delicate and sensitive.
No sharp movements. This is strictly prohibited here.
But the result from such a truly bohemian. If there is enough patience, then every minute spent on the development of the anus will pay off.
You get involved instantly.
Cautions
Fisting can bring a bright orgasm and make you find new sensations that are still unknown.
But it also requires adhere to a certain set of rules, compliance with which will help to make it more pleasant and safer.
- There is no lubrication. In anal fisting, you just can not do without it, since the anus does not produce its own, and for its vaginal one may not be enough. Lubrication should always be at hand.
- Clean arms and legs. This rule does not require an explanation. The zones are very sensitive and any bacterium brought inward can bring many problems in the future.
- Short nails and lack of jewelry. Sensitive internal walls of the body can be easily chopped with a long manicure, and jewelry, in addition to damaging delicate skin, can still be lost inside. No matter how hard they sit, we remember about lubrication.
- Holistic skin cover. We are alien infection to nothing. So in the case of cuts it is better to use gloves.
- Trust and listen to a partner. It is better not to deal with fisting without a careful attitude. This pleasure is for an amateur and do not force a forcibly. If the partner hurts, it is better to stop.
- Do not be afraid of doctors. If, nevertheless, something went wrong in fisting, pain, blood, tears during affection or after, do not hesitate to see a doctor. There is nothing shameful here. You will avoid big problems. And the doctors, believe me, have seen and not that.
Summing up, we can say that the fisting is not suitable for everyone, but you can try it.
Perhaps this will be exactly what you lack in sex and this variety will allow you to revive sexual relations and bring confidence to a new level.