6 myths about sex after 50 years. What is good mature sex?.
You still think that life ends after 40, and sex ends with it? Then you will be surprised by learning what odds the older generation on the sexual front can give youth. Today we debunge 6 myths about sex after 50 years.
Myth # 1: people aged less have sex
Wanting to verify the truth of this statement, the Saga magazine ordered a survey, which passed 9 thousand people of both sexes aged 50+ years. As a result, 71% of respondents said that he lives regular sexual life. This result was 6% exceeded the indicator of a similar survey of 2007.
Of course, many participants in the survey admitted that now the amount of sex in their lives has become less than in their youth, but still more than in those years when they had small children or when they built their careers. A quarter of men and a third of women said that now sex brings more pleasure than 20-30 years ago.
Myth No. 2: Sexual Adventures – The lot of youth
Of course, «Sexual adventures» for each pair yours: for someone to decide in a new pose – This is a whole event, and someone considers everyday business sex in a public place. It is logical that couples aged cannot make love in acrobatic poses, because their bodies are no longer as flexible as before. But the research of the University of Chicago showed that people aged – Those still pranksters.
Scientists interviewed 3005 people in the age category of 57-85 years about the state of their intimate life. More than 50% of respondents in a group of up to 75 years admitted that they have oral sex. A third of the group 75+ years confessed the same. The respondents noted that oral sex after 50 becomes more pleasant thanks to skills, honed for decades of experience. Also, 2.4% of men admitted that in the last year they had sex in a public place.
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Myth No. 3: Erection problems come with age
Yes, the body wears out with age, and people have health problems, including an erection, but this is not the case in all representatives of the stronger sex. After the fiftieth anniversary, men most often encounter another situation: metabolic processes slow down in the body, and most of the excitement occurs more slowly than before. But slower – This does not mean worse;On the contrary, many men note that because of this they are relieved, because they are more «Not slaves of an erection», capable of instantly excited from a look at the female neckline.
Other men, not wanting to lag behind youth, become regulars of sex shops, buying up all kinds of rings for erection, prostate stimulants or vibrators for partners.
Myth No. 4: The older the person, the less often he has sex
This is very individual. Some partners continue to have sex 1-2 times a day, as in their youth, others – once a month, as before. If there are no serious problems with sexual health and diseases, due to which you have to limit physical activity, then the frequency of sex after 50 years does not change. And people who begin a new relationship at such a mature age note that sex in them is no less than in the relationship that took place in their youth.
Myth No. 5: orgasms after 50
According to a study of sexual health and behavior conducted by the University of Indiana in 2010, women experience orgasms more often after 50 years than in their youth. And the point here is not so much in experience, but in the fact that with age, partners pay more and more attention not to the coatus and frictions, but preludes and caresses.
Myth No. 6: Menopausa – The end of sexual life
Age imposes its seal on the female body, and it is not only about wrinkles. With the advent of menopause, hormonal activities are also fading away. But this does not stop women: they continue to have sex, except that now they may need a lubricant. Sexual activity after menopause decreases only in 20% of women;in 10% it rises. Women become relaxed in bed, since they are leaving fear of an unplanned pregnancy.