Secret Technique “Civin Method” or Cunnilingus on the side.
Want to please your beloved unusual oral caresses? There is an interesting proposal – “Kivin method” or cunnilingus on the side. Who has already tried, they say that the partner reaches orgasm in 3-5 minutes, and he is incredibly powerful and bright. In this article we will tell you how to perform this technique and how to improve.
The history of the “Kivin method”
Where did such an unusual name come from – it is unknown. The first time it sounded in Paris in 2001, where a sexology conference was held. The term was used by Dr. Patti Briton. There is an assumption that this is the name of a partner who very surprised her with his skills in oral sex. Then the concept was found in 2003 in the journal “Atlantic” in the article “The Week of Sex at Yale University”. Mentions of it can be found on numerous sites, blogs and even books devoted to sex and sexual health. Actively this type of oral affection was discussed by participants in the popular Reddit forum.
According to one theory, local tribes invented the technique of affection on Tahiti. They did not have any constraint in sex, so couples actively examined their bodies. So they accidentally found an unusual pose and felt all its advantages. There is also an assumption that the method was the result of the long work of scientists. For several years, sexologists have investigated different techniques of oral stimulation and chose the most effective from them. But there are no confirmations of these versions.
The authors in publications and ordinary people in posts talked about incredible sensations from oral stimulation by the method of kivin. They mentioned bright orgasms, whose duration and strength exceeded the climax from vaginal sex and ordinary cunnilingus. The reliability of these statements is difficult to check. But you can experimentally study all the pros and cons of such an unusual contact.
How to perform a “kivin method”
Cunnilingus execution on this technique can be divided into three steps. We will analyze in detail each.
Take the right position
It is important that partners during oral caresses be comfortable. This will allow them to concentrate on the process and their sensations. It is ideal to try to make lateral cunnilingus on the floor or another flat surface so that nothing distracts from caresses. Nearby you can put grease and napkins.
The girl lies on her back and spreads her legs a little to the side, without bending them. For convenience, you can place a folded blanket, an ordinary pillow or a sex pillow under your head and lower back. Hand position – free.
The man lies on the stomach perpendicular to the partner. If you look from above, the position of the bodies of partners will look like the letter “T”. He throws one bent hand over her leg, bends the second and puts on her torso. The face and palms of the partner are located above Vulva.What is the plus of this position
In the usual pose for cunnilingus, when the partner spreads his legs wide, everything is as open as possible: anus, crotch. The girl is simply shy, is afraid to show something superfluous and fears that there will be an involuntary gas output. For oral caresses, you do not need to spread your legs too wide, so the sensations are much more comfortable.
How to determine that the girl is excited
This can be seen on the following signs:
- The clitoris swells and a little “protrudes” from under the hood;
- The so-called “kdochki” become noticeable. These are two small tubercles the size of a rice grain located on each side of the clitoris hood;
- Stone nipples.
The language of the partner’s body may also indicate excitement: her hips move towards a man’s mouth, hands caress his nape. The girl groans or makes other sounds indicating that she is good now.
Vulva stimulation, not just the clitoris
In the classic version of cunnilingus, the stimulation of the labia is of secondary importance. A man usually tries to stick the tongue between them in order to influence the most sensitive zones of vulva. He also plays a lot and for a long time with the clitoris, but at the same time cares only his head.
But for some women, direct clitoris stimulation can be too intense and causes unpleasant sensations. In the “Kivin method” everything is different. Stimulation goes on the side: the tongue more passes along the labia, only slightly touching the clitoris. At this moment, not only the head is stimulated, but also the clitoris rod, the entire area of vulva. The sensations from such actions are completely different from the usual.
What should be the movements of the language
Consider in more detail the actions of the partner. The principle of “the stronger, the better” does not work here, and it is not worth straining the tongue unnecessary.
It is optimal to have a moderate effect on the clitoris and labia. The pace should first be measured, gradually it can be increased. But not much. Ideally, if you do the following:
- The language concerns erogenous zones not with the tip, but with the whole plane – this approach will significantly increase the level of pleasure;
- Try to influence all the folds of the lips – usually these areas get very little attention, although there are a lot of sensitive points;
- periodically change the direction of movements – they can be circular, transverse and longitudinal;
- The lips also participate – they can kiss and slightly pull the skin, suck the clitoris and labia.
Do not forget about the variety – add to oral caressing stimulation with your fingers. They can massage the anus or crotch, enter the vagina into the vagina with progressive movements and t. P.
It is important that the partner feels the girl all the time, captures her condition and correctly read the reactions of her body. For example, swelling of the lips and contraction of the muscles of the vagina indicate a strong excitement, at which the pace should be slightly accelerated and in no case do not stop. If at such a moment stop contact or slow down stimulation, then again bring the girl to such a state will be very difficult.
These are general recommendations, and in sex there is always a place for experiments. When partners are on the same wavelength, they completely trust each other and are not afraid to talk about the most secret, they will find the best options for intensity and direction of movements.
How to improve the “civin method”
The pair described above can always change at their discretion. For example, you should try the situation when a girl pulls one or both legs to her chest. The man is also located on the side.
In this and classic version of the posture for the “kivin method”, the partner can put a finger on the crotch (place between the vagina and the anus). Easy stimulation of this area is allowed, but you can do without it. Even static contact will feel the contraction of the inner muscles of the woman.
In most women, the sensitivity of the vulva on the left and right is different. Therefore, it is worth clarifying with a partner from which side it is better to “go” so that the partner is more pleasant, or find out this experimentally.
Another way is to add a few sex toys to the technique. Use Vibropulu or Vibration to the finger, To additionally affect the clitoris and labia of the girl, while the tongue caresses the crotch or anus.
If the partner does not mind, you can simultaneously stimulate her vagina vibrator for point g or phalloimitator.
Also, do not forget about lubricant for oral sex – The wet the better, and the friction will be less. And if you take flavored lubricant, cunnilingus will not only be pleasant, but also very tasty!
Advice: Use a liquid vibrator shortly before the caresses to strengthen female excitement.
And, of course, communicate with each other. Whatever sexual pose or technique you perform, it is important to speak the experience gained with a partner.
Discuss your impressions that I would like to improve or try next time.
The main thing is not to strive to receive or bring someone to orgasm for “three minutes”. Just try this method: it can be perfect for you. But even if this does not work, you will still discover new and exciting opportunities in sex like a couple.