Skiyshiming: a ban on female sexuality.
Skiyshiming – public tyranny expressed in limiting female sexuality, suggesting a feeling of guilt and shame for the inconsistency of behavior expectations of society. The word itself came from the unification of two English words – a whore and shame. Manifests itself in relation to the representatives of the gentle sex who dress or demonstrate their sexual attraction outside the generally accepted norm.
As a rule, those who dress up defiantly, expose parts of the body, have sex before the wedding or out of marriage, have a random sex life, has many partners, agree to sex on the first date or with an unfamiliar man, and also enters into intimacy for moneyeither on mutually beneficial conditions.
Also, the victims of the rape or the actions of a sexual nature without consent, are under the pressure of conviction. She herself provoked, there was no need to go there, it was not necessary to stand there, there was no need to get acquainted and so on.
Skiyshiming as a result of envy
An attractive woman who has high demand from men often becomes an object of envy. And what can be envied by representatives of both sexes for various reasons. So representatives of the weaker sex, who have lost their attractiveness for age or other reasons, relate to young and beautiful women noticeably more aggressively.
Here you can observe the position “If I do not reach, the main thing is that you do not reach”. The older generations who lived in conditions of hard restrictions on any form of manifestation of sexuality understand that they have missed a lot in life and do not want others to get an inaccessible pleasure.
The difference between male and female sexuality, as well as the level of need for intimate life, leads to the fact that the demand for a woman from men is always higher than for a man from women. The girl is not enough to have sex, her psyche constantly takes into account many other data. Such as reliability, safety, emotional comfort, trust and so on.
Each sexual intercourse is associated with a potential pregnancy, which means “giving” the right and to the left is the initially risk. Men, by nature, are aimed at as many intercourse as possible. And so the imbalance of demand and demand leads to the fact that men often want than they can, women, on the contrary.
Together, all these factors are envious. If I feel shortage, then let others also live in it. Too frank clothes and liberated behavior is perceived as a prohibited reception. It is enough for a woman to expose the buttocks to cause a desire among the stronger sex, and in turn this is clearly not enough. We cannot and you do not do it – this is the main argument.
The fight against “injustice”
Every person dreams of living a comfortable and full life. But to obtain all the necessary goods, resources are needed in the form of intelligence, knowledge, education, experience, skills, physical strength, health, money. At some point it turned out that women are in a much more profitable position.
With a slender body and a pretty face, you can not try at all. Appearance is like doping. Magic tablet that makes you successful in a matter of days. One has to study for a long time and work hard, and it is enough for others to put on a skirt just above the norm and openly declare their intentions to exchange sex for anything.
In such a situation, a mediocre and useless person can take off too high, get power and money undeservedly, simply because he is an attractive girl. And already there, on Olympus, it can become a source of problems.
The beginning of this theory is laid in ancient Greece, where Pandora went down to the ground and conquered all men. Thanks to her appearance, she achieved the location and recognition, fell crazy of the representatives of the stronger sex, and then opened the box from which troubles and misfortunes rained down, and only hope was at the bottom.
Skiyshiming is a way to maintain healthy competition for resources. The benefits of civilization should be obtained by those who create something and bring to society, and not to those who use the gifts of nature. So there were restrictions on sexuality that lead to success by light paths. Women were virtually forbidden to use the prohibited technique and tried to return them to the race according to the rules.
Patriarchal system and its degradation
A woman has an attractive appearance, but she is called a weak floor for a reason. Throughout history, the world was immersed in wars and conflicts, and food and ensuring protection from predators completely lay on male shoulders. The division of duties occurred, everyone did what he is capable of.
The man was responsible for protection and food, a woman for cooking and raising children. Over the years, society has developed, weapons, building materials, social guarantees have appeared. The functions of the man were declining and the need for it decreased. Women realized that now they do not have to keep loyalty, match expectations and belong to one partner.
Men do hard work, protect the territories from enemies thereby providing a peaceful sky above their heads, their taxes contain other people’s children and form an environment in which women are comfortable. They still must provide, protect, give gifts, take care, but at the same time they can no longer count on the presence of a gentle sex in her life and on her care.
All this forms a sense of injustice and enhances the misoginia. Women took all the best from the patriarchal system, but stubbornly defend their independence. In this case, sending the SloodyMing in this case is perceived as an attempt to return to the balance, where a woman uses her sexuality only to obtain benefits from a man with whom he consists in relationships and shows her attraction exclusively within the framework of these relations.
Skamyming as a manifestation of aggression and hatred
Skiyshiming is more common in a conservative society where everything related to sex is in taboo. Restricting beliefs and prohibition of rights and freedoms leads to a rigid suppression of any self -identification.
The established values are perceived as the only true and unshakable, and any deviation from the norm instantly leads to aggression and rigid suppression.
The sexual revolution was first held in the United States (1960s), then in the era of sunset of the Soviet Union at the junction of the formation of Russia (1980-1990). Sex ceased to be a forbidden topic, sexology began to develop, information about the methods of contraception appeared, abortion was allowed, sex loser opened his eyes to the physiology of a man and woman, an orgasm ceased to be something shameful and unacceptable.
All this favorably affected not only the psycho-emotional state of citizens, but also led to a sharp decrease in violent actions. Most maniacs in the Soviet period had problems in an intimate life, but could not talk about it with a specialist. There were no sex toys. As a result, this often led to tragedies.
Liberalization of sex led to the appearance of sex education. Adolescents began to use condoms because they learned about diseases transmitted sexually. But despite the positive influence of the sexual revolution, the SloodyMing still exists.
Reasons not only in the above problems of society and the struggle between the sexes, but also in the presence of people of ultra -conservative views. Unfortunately, a meeting of people with different opinions about the permissible level of manifestation of sexuality often leads to serious conflicts.
On the Internet, you can find threats, harassment, insults and injury. Hatred arises in relation to “too” liberated people and the matter often comes to the use of force. Law enforcement agencies regularly encounter statements from victims.
By defending their views, many do not notice how they cross the border of the permitted, commit crimes and cause suffering to others. Probably Skiyatiming is a really acute problem, but it is worth remembering the personal boundaries and freedom of each person. Perhaps only to solve the skirt how long to wear and how to dispose of his body.
At least any violence and manifestation of aggression in a healthy society should be excluded. Sex is the basic need and sexual attraction is laid in us by nature. But the norms and rules should be periodically reviewed in order to achieve mutual respect and comfortable stay in society for everyone.